The Most Costly Expense of All

Copyright © 2004 By Terry Rigg

There is a national crisis in this country and many others. That crisis is our consumer debt. As a typical American you may even be experiencing some financial difficulties yourself.

Do you think you have a lot of bills? If so, you are probably right. 
But have you discovered the bill that costs you the most money each month? 

On average your housing costs probably run about 30% of 
your take home pay. Your other bills which include utilities, 
credit cards, insurance, etc. also run about 30% of your take 
home pay. It probably takes another 30% to run your 
household and if you are lucky you can stash the remaining 
10% in a savings account.

What are your percentages? 
Do you know, or are you guessing? 
That's the problem. 
Most people don't know.  
They run their budget out of their wallet. 

There is that hideous word "Budget". 

Many people compare operating their finances with a budget to having a ball and chain attached to their wallet. They won't be able to get anything they want for the rest of their lives. 

Let's see if the following scenario fits you: 

  1. You get paid. 
  2. You write out your bills. 
  3. You give your spouse some money. 
  4. You wait for next payday to get some more money so you can do the same thing. 

You may not realize it but if you are doing this you are spending a lot more money than you need to.

I can almost guarantee that if you are trying to run your finances like the scenario above at some point you are going to run into problems. It simply can't work. 

The main reason for this is that you never get a broad picture of where you are financially. You pay the bills and hope you have enough money to buy your groceries and put gas in the car until next payday. 

Most of the people I work with have no idea how much money they make or how much they owe. While money may be important to them it is way too much trouble to learn how to manage it. This is the very reason there were $1.5 million bankruptcies in this country last year. 

Most people can add and subtract. 
That's all there is to a budget. 

If you aren't willing to take the time to do that adding and subtracting then living paycheck to paycheck will be with you the rest of your life. 

You will be a victim of "Financial Complacency" which simply means that you know you need to manage your money better but aren't willing to do what's necessary. 

Here are a few excuses I hear to justify this attitude: 

I don't make enough money. 
I owe too much to set up a budget. 
I'm not good with numbers. 
I just don't have the time to keep up with a budget. 
I can't get my spouse to work with me. 


Do any of these sound familiar? 

Well, that's the problem -- but what about a solution? The solution is simple, no matter what your financial situation is.

First, you must find out where you stand now. That could be as simple as writing down your income and bills and expenses on a piece of notebook paper. 
Then subtract your expenses from your income. 
Make sure to include your household expenses (groceries, car gas, etc.) in your expenses.

At the bottom of this article you will find a free Budget System complete with the forms and worksheets needed to make it work.

Now look at the numbers. 

Do you have anything left over? 
If so what are you going to do with it? Making that decision is the next step. 

If you don't have any money left over then you need to consider cutting some of those expenses. 

Money is a tool.
It is supposed to work FOR you.

Now you need to decide what you really want your money to do for you. Set your goals! This could be saving for your retirement, buying a home, college for the kids, getting a new car or any number of things. That's why you have to decide for yourself. There are just too many variables for someone else to help you set your goals.

My first suggestion to get what you want out of life is that if you have credit card debt you look for a way to pay them off and stop using them. Realizing that goal could make all your other goals more likely to succeed. 

Now it's time to set up that dreaded budget. Where are you going to find the time and desire to write everything down that you spend and all the other stuff that goes along with keeping a budget? 

The answer is that you don't have to! 

One of the biggest myths about budgeting is that you need to keep up with it everyday. That's the reason so many people refuse to try. 

If you believe that managing your money is too difficult or just too much trouble consider the alternative. Not managing your money is probably robbing you of thousands of dollars a year and could easily lead to financial disaster. 

It does take a little time to get your budget setup. There are a lot of things that need to be considered. But once your finances are down on paper there is no reason to work on it except on payday. You will find a link to a free budget like this in the next paragraph. 

Terry Rigg has spent 25 years counseling individuals and families concerning their personal finances.  He is the editor of the Budget Stretcher web site http://www.homemoneyhelp.com  and The Free Budget Stretcher Newsletter http://www.homemoneyhelp.com/confirmsubs.html   Terry offers a free Budget System complete with the forms and worksheets needed to make it work. 
http://www.homemoneyhelp.com/BBOonline.html   . 

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